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Personality Development

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT  

Personality is the sum total of ways in which an individual reacts and interacts with others. Or Personality is generally defined as the deeply ingrained and relatively enduring patterns of thought, feeling and behavior. In fact, when one refers to personality, it generally implies to all what is unique about an individual, the characteristics that makes one stand out in a crowd.

Personalities is the sum total of individual’s Psychological traits, characteristics, motives, habits, attitudes, beliefs and outlooks.

Personality determinants :

Heredity : Heredity refers to those factors that were determined at conception. Physical structure, facial attractiveness, gender, temperament, muscle composition and reflexes, energy level, and biological rhythms are characteristics that are generally considered to be either completely or substantially influenced by who your parents were, that is by their biological, physiological and inherent psychological make up.

Environment : The environmental factors that exert pressures on our personality formation are the culture in which we are raised, our early conditioning, the norms among our family, friends and social groups, and other influences that we experience. The environment to which we are exposed plays a substantial role in shaping our personalities.

Situation : A third factor, the situation, influences the effects of heredity and environment on personality. An individual’s personality although generally stable and consistent, does change in different situations. The varying demand of different situation calls forth different aspects of one’s personality. We should not therefore look upon personality patterns in isolation.

DEVELOPING POSITIVE PERSONALITY


1. Subconscious Programming :

Most of us sometimes get programmed / conditioned by a wrong messages that “ donot do that”, “don’t take the risk”, “you can not do that” you are not good in …and so on…..
You can imagine the bad effect such message can have on any person.

Fig- I : Subconscious Mind Programming           Our Conscious Mind is like a watch man. And the Subconscious Mind is a store of all the previously programmed or conditioned information / knowledge/ believes. Now programming personality means putting positive believes/ information into the store with out the knowledge of the watchman (conscious mind).

Suppose you tell yourself that “you are good at Public Speaking”. And the store has stored based on peoples comments and experience that “you are poor in communication” “you can not speak well in public”, “you don’t have an impressive body language” …..
The watch man sees your sentence and compares it with the knowledge in its store and says “this information is wrong”. The watchman throws the new information away. He does not allow the new positive information into the store. This is the fundamental difficulty in changing personality & behavior of a person.


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Personality of Success


PERSONALITY OF SUCCESS 

A pleasing personality, the personality of success is a personality that does not antagonize. Personality cannot be defined in one word, or with half a dozen words, for it represents the sum total of all one’s characteristics, good and bad. 

Your personality is totally unlike any other personality. It is the sum total of qualities, emotions, characteristics, appearance, etc., that distinguish you from all other people on earth.  

Your clothes form an important part of your personality: the way you wear them, the harmony of colours you select, the quality and many other details, all go to indicate much that is intrinsically a part of your personality. Psychologists claim that they can be accurately analyse any person, in many important respects, by turning that person loose in a clothing store that sells a great variety and where the subject has instructions to select the clothes freely.  

Your facial expression, forms an important part of your personality. Your voice, its pitch, tone, volume, and the language you use form important part of your personality, because they mark you instantly, once you have spoken, as a person of refinement or the opposite.  

The manner in which you shake hands constitutes an important part of your personality. If, when shaking hands, your hands you offer is limp and lifeless as a dead fish, you are displaying a personality that shows no sign of enthusiasm or initiative.  
 


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Positive Self Esteem

POSITIVE SELF-ESTEEM


High self-esteem leads to a happy, gratifying and powerful life. Unless you perceive yourself as worthwhile, you can not have high self esteem. All great world leaders and teachers throughout history have concluded that one must be internally driven in order to be success.

People with high self-esteem grow in conviction, competence and willingness to accept responsibility. They face life with optimism, have better relationships and are more sensitive, motivated, and ambitious. They are open to new opportunities and challenges. They can give and receive criticism and compliments tactfully and with ease.

Self-esteem is a feeling which comes from an awareness of what is good and having done it.

Advantages of high Self-esteem :
  • Build strong conviction.
  • Creates willingness to accept responsibility.
  • Builds optimistic attitude.
  • Leads to better relationship and fulfilling lives.
  • Makes a person more sensitive to other’s need and develop a caring attitude.
  • Makes a person self-motivated and ambitious.
  • Makes a person open to new opportunities and challenges.
  • Improve performance and increase risk taking ability.
  • Helps a person give and receive both criticism and complements tactfully and easily.


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Ideas rule the world

IDEAS RULE THE WORLD

A mind that is stretched to a new idea….

Never return to its original dimension.

"Ideas rule world; and, as men’s minds will receive new ideas, laying aside the old and effete, the world will advance: mighty revolutions will spring from them; creeds and even powers will crumble before their onward march crushed by the irresistible force. It will be just as impossible to resist their influx, when the time comes, as to stay the progress of the tide."

An idea is a specific thought or concept that arises in the mind of a person as a result of thinking. It is the divine inspiration of the God. Ideas are the fountain and source of the world’s treasury of wisdom. The ideas of those who lived before us rule our lives today. Ideas have always been vital in arousing public opinion and bringing about a reform-whether it was the freedom struggle or the eradication of a social evil. Theosophical ideas have the ability to change the inner nature of man and have the power to transform beast into human, human into divine man.


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Faith : The Seed of Success

FAITH : THE SEED OF SUCCESS
I feel no need for any other faith
than my faith in human being.

……..Sadhuji

Never give in ! Never give in ! Never Never Never.
In nothing great or small, large or petty, never give in,
Except to convictions, or honour and good sense.
………. Sir Winston Churchill

Fight the good fight of faith,
Lay hold on eternal life.
………. I. Timothy

First it is ridiculed,
Second, it is violently opposed,
Finally it is accepted and self-evident.
….…..Arthur Schopenhauer.


Brave admiral, say but one good word….
What shall we do when hope is gone ?
The word leapt like a leaping sword…
Sail on ; Sail on ; and on ;
..…..Jouquin miller.

Even the darkest hour has only 60 minutes.

Be faithful in small things, because
It is in them that your strength lies.
………. Mother Teresa

FAITH CAN MOVE A MOUNTAIN

If you have a faith as a mustard seed you will say to this mountain ‘move from here to there’ and it will move and nothing shall be impossible for you.
……….. Lord Jesus


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Lead the World and It’s Yours

Lead the World and It's Yours


Being true to yourself, to your passion and visions,
Is the place where evolution begins.

….. Sadhuji
Your time is limited, so don’t waste it
living someone else’s life.

The only way to do great work is to love what you do,
If you have not found it yet, keep looking, don’t settle.

Most important have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become.

…… Steve Jobs,
Chief, Apple Computer.

Visualise your dreams. Life is purposeless without dreams. When dreams are intense and pure, they possess electromagnetic energy. Desire and dreams together create a new energy every night, as the mind falls into the sleep state. Each morning dreams returns to the conscious state reinforced with the cosmic currents. Dreams help you choose your mission requires hard work and perseverance.
……..….APJ Abdul Kalam.
Go ahead do your own things, and have fun.
….N R Narayanmurthy.

If no one responds to your call- Walk alone.

…….. Rabindranath Tagore.
It is the choice not the chance that determine your destiny.

…..Jean Nidetch.


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